Looking for my last "first date"

DO you really want honesty or just the appearance of Honesty in the perfect ideal package ??? Lots of people say they want it, search for it, but most times get fooled by it down the road after they have invested their time, energy, and feelings !!!!! I'm honest and upfront from the start but some people can't handle that. Most people are deceived by the appearance of honesty in the beginning and are fooled later, so when they come across someone honest and upfront from the beginning they are shocked and taken back by it. Why is that ???? So I ask do you really want Honest ???

Blah Blah Blah I'm sure every guy on here has told you that they are the greatest thing since sliced bread (honest, caring, big heart, truthful, faithful, romantic, blah blah blah......lmao

The "truth" of the matter is you really have no idea until you get to know them. So I'm not going to waste your time or mine by blowing smoke up your ass. I have allot of great qualities and allot of interests but you can find out for yourself if you'd like. If you decide to give me a shot I'll show you all those things and more and make you a believer :-) The proofs in the pudding ;-) What I have to offer will shake the ground beneath your feet. I don't do anything half way. If that scares you I guess I'm the wrong guy.


If you want to know more drop me a line lets talk, I'm an open book with NOTHING hidden. Nothing ventured, Nothing gained

Lets face it we all have a little baggage at this point in our life or we have been hiding in a shell. A little baggage is okay but if your dying from 10 different things, your ex is haunting you day and night, your kids hate you, and your a druggy or a drunk then stay away from this guy.
The first "date" can be any place that we are both comfortable and can talk to get to know more about each other. The first "meeting" doesn't have to be a "date". We could just meet for lunch or something of that nature with NO pressure. If we click, we click, if not, we both walk away as ADULTS !!! Why waste time on the big romantic dinner, dancing, walk on the beach with someone that you may not be comfortable with ??? I mean all that would be great if you click but what if you think I'm a Troll or I think your hobbit....lmao that would make for a very awkward night !!!

She would be a person that has an open mind about life. Someone that can think for themselves and is not lead blindly by the nose. She would have her sh*t together, not want drama in her life, and won't tolerate cheaters and liers. Someone that I'm sure will continue to surprise me as I will her.

The old saying goes behind every good man is a good woman but I believe that "BESIDE" ever good man is a good woman. I don't want a woman behind me pushing me, nor a woman in front of me trying to pull me, but rather a woman beside me experiencing things and life together.

If we are happy together we should be able to go anywhere and do anything and be happy just to be in each others company. My match is a strong woman when the time calls for it and also able to laugh and joke. Someone who knows how NOT to take things so seriously all the time and can laugh at themselves and let the petty things roll off her back.

I want to share myself and my dreams with someone who wants to do the same. What good is all of this if you can't share it with someone special. I want the kind of connection with someone that most people only dream of. I want that kind of closeness that makes you ache when your apart but still enjoys having time to themselves! I want someone who can be romantic and my best friend at the same time. I want someone who appreciates the little things in life. My perception of an ideal relationship: One where even after ten years of being together you still get butterflies in your stomach because you cant wait to see them.

HONESTY and COMMUNICATION are the most important qualities.
Dislikes:Cheaters, Liars, Rude people that open there mouth without thinking.